A SPECIES CALLED WOMAN ♀️
Have you ever wondered why a
girl often loves her father more than she loves her mother? Why does she feel
more secure sharing her hopes and dreams with her father than with her mother?
Is it because being a female makes her scared of the same species? Moreover,
maybe that is the reason she feels opening her heart more to a male than
to a female.
There are so many questions,
and today I think I have found some answers to them. Therefore, here are some
associations that will come out of the shadows.
MOTHER AND DAUGHTER: There
is always a competition between them. Each would do things to hurt the other. A
mother would never agree to her daughter’s boyfriend and would find everything
negative about the man in her daughter's life, even when she had the same
argument with her mother about the man in her life when she was her daughter's
age. However, as soon as she turns a mother herself, everything changes; at
least when it concerns her daughter and the man she is going around with and
planning to marry, and soon the happiness of her daughter can take a ride, as
she knows what is good for her.
However, some daughter
puts their foot down and would end up marrying the men they love, while at other
times, the mothers are quite capable enough to brainwash the minds of their
daughters with these words.
'He is not the man for you?'
'I made a mistake marrying your father; you are doing the same marrying him.'
Love doesn't run the kitchen; it's money, and he doesn't earn much.'
Moreover, the criticism
keeps going on until the daughter gives in, and the mother wins. However, if it
is the other way, when the daughter is firm with her decision about the man in
her life, then the mother says the most common sentence. 'Okay, it's your life,
but remembers, I am your mother, and I know what is good for you, but if you
want to marry him, and I hope he makes you happy. But if something goes wrong,
well, I had warned you.'
A strong-headed mother
always has it her way when it comes to taking care of her daughter's love life.
In such cases, it is the mother's high pride that counts, and nothing else.
After all, her daughter's love and feelings are nothing compared to the
mother's self-pride. And there’s a victory smile when she chooses the man for
her daughter, even when she knows that the man of her choice wouldn't be the
right man for her daughter (In some cases). Moreover, when her daughter comes
back with her heart broken, there is a burning revenge inside the mother's
heart, and she will make sure to speak only poison for her ex-son-in-law, and
soon start looking out for a new puppet (Groom) for her daughter, this time
richer. (Age no bar) After all, again, the happiness of her daughter does not
matter; what matters is the mother's pride in society.
Mind you, the father has no
say at all; his feelings for his daughter don't count, after all, it is the
mother who kept the child in her womb for nine months, so she knows what is
good for her daughter; besides, to her, all men are the same.
There are some cases where
some mothers feel glad to see their daughter suffer; it is a blunt truth, and
therefore, mostly two men can be friends, but two women. NEVER!
MOTHER, DAUGHTER AND LOVER:
A divorced woman is so insecure that she lives her life in jealousy, and there
is always a scared thought in her heart that someone would come and steal her
new love in her life. This jealousy takes her away from her loved ones as she
starts doubting all of them.
A divorced woman with a
young teenage girl is the one who lets her doubts play the most. For example,
she meets a man who comes into her life, and sometimes there is only lust,
which keeps them together; there are few who are there for love. However, most
of them are just to prove each their ex-partners that they have someone younger
and hotter than them. Most of these love-lust games also happen on re-bond.
Things get messier when
there is a daughter in the picture. Who is not at all giving any kind of sign
that she has fallen for her stepfather? There are very few cases where such
incest relationship happens. Otherwise, the daughter is happy that her mother
has found someone who is taking care of her; besides, she has her own life,
which includes her boyfriend and friends. Therefore, her mother’s new husband
or her lover is just like a father figure to her.
However, in some cases, the
age gap between mother and daughter is very less, and this is when the evil
thoughts enter. A weak-minded and envious woman would think like a snake. Then
even a fatherly pat or a hug becomes a huge issue between the two women.
Moreover, if by chance again her new love has left her, she will put all the
blame on her daughter. There are some cruel facts where her mother’s lover has
even raped her daughter, but still her mother would stand by her lover and
blame her daughter.
There are cases where a
mother makes her daughter feel helpless and worthless, in front of her
daughter’s friends, by highlighting her beauty, and the way she speaks, dresses,
and walks. Even flirting with her daughter’s boyfriend, which is wrong even if
it’s done healthily, as one never knows when flirting fun can take a
serious turn.
Mothers and Daughters
should always have a line of respect between them; sometimes, when there is
hardly any major age gap between a mother and daughter, it does not mean
that status will change. Even if your mother is your best friend and vice versa, neither should cross the line of respect towards each other.
Dressing well is great, but dressing like your daughter will make your daughter
feel low. Therefore, even if you are the world’s most beautiful and sexy
mother, you should do anything that would make your daughter feel dejected, at
least when you are with her.
MOTHER-IN-LAW VS DAUGHTER-IN-LAW: The very first meeting between the two of them is like a hawk
(Mother-in-law) watching its prey (Daughter-in-law), and a never-ending fight
begins.
A mother is about to lose her most precious person, her son, to another woman (daughter-in-law) makes
her feel as if she is losing control of her life. Then there is the fear of
handing over the rights of household matters to the daughter-in-law, and for a
mother-in-law, it is like giving your kingdom (House) to your enemy, willingly, as
there is no other option. Unless both women live separately in their own
kingdom (Houses) or their bonding is good with each other, where the word IN-LAW
does not come between them, and each of them loves and respects the other like
mother and daughter.
There are many cases where
a woman has taken an extra step to see that the other woman is suffering. Jealousy,
envy, and hate, these three emotions are majorly inside every human being, and
it is the most poisonous things than anything. These things destroy every
relationship.
Even some of the major
historical conflicts have happened due to a woman’s mind and beauty.
Woman, a creation of god, yet
even he could not understand her.
A species called woman is
dangerous than any other species.
🐦🔥
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